Gender Issues

Ok, so a lot of you know I haven't been on for a while. Sorry about that. I do go through stages when roleplaying, but I have other reasons too.

Basically, for those of you who don't know, I'm having a bit of a gender identity crisis. To keep things short, I think I'm Ungendered. Of course, that isn't an option on many websites, so I may start putting myself down as Male. This isn't going to change the way I act or speak (much? I might be more confident or nervous).

This leads to the problem with Roleplay. Pan is my Self Insert. 'She' is basically me, or how I would like to be perceived in this setting. But 'she' is female, and since I am no longer that, I'm not sure what to do with her. I'm thinking of making her male (I keep seeing him in this really nice waistcoat and trilby, and it just sort of... works), but at the moment I'm just saying 'They, Their' instead. I may say 'Xe, Xer' if it makes things easier, but yeah.

All I ask is that you don't pressure me about it. I know you're all really nice and understanding, so please be patient with me. Hope to roleplay properly soon.